Privacy Settings

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Check Privacy Settings Frequently

I have so many conversations with parents about privacy settings.  There really is a lack of education when it comes to this topic.  I see so many Facebook profiles that are open for child and I am able to tell you where they live and other family members location.  We certainly wouldn’t let our children roam around the countryside on their own or tell anyone where we are going.  The scariest bit is that people check into places in the world to view.  Unfortunately, there are criminals out there just watching and waiting for someone to check in and off they go to their house and rob them.

A friend of mine had their bike stolen a few weeks ago, from their garage while on holiday. The strange thing is there were another 4 bikes in the same place, but they didn’t want them, only the valuable road bike.  I know this is something I keep going on about, but privacy settings are so important for all apps not just Facebook.  Think about what you are putting out there.  Be Savvy

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Cyberbullying: What is it and What Can You Do About it?

Cyberbullying is more than just the latest negative trend to sweep through our communities. It has not only caught on like wildfire, but it seems to be here to stay. Current statistics state that approximately 43% of kids report being bullied online at some point in their adolescence, 1 in 4 report it occurring more than once. Studies also say that 68% of teens agree that it is has become a serious problem.

So, what is cyberbullying? Cyberbullying has been defined as ‘bullying that takes place using electronic technology.’ But what does this actually entail? Cyberbullying can come in many different forms and use many different methods. Cyberbullying occurs through the use of a cell phone, computer, or tablet. Methods can vary from a cyberbully using social media sites (such as Facebook or Twitter), text messages (whether group or individual), chat programs, or websites.

The internet never sleeps, which means cyberbullying can occur 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It can reach a child during school breaks, at night, or even when they are alone. As with all things on the internet, it can spread quickly and can be extremely complicated to track down the original offender. Deleting the offensive materials can also prove to be especially difficult once they have been posted.

As a parent, cyberbullying can be a daunting issue, especially if you’re not tech-savvy. How do you, as a parent, go about handling such a problem? Here are some tips to help you wade through the topic at hand.

Make your child feel safe and secure. Sure, this sounds easy enough but it is the first step to getting the situation under control. Your child needs to know that you fully support them and are dedicated to the same end result – getting the bullying to stop.

Refrain from banning access to electronic devises. Unless your child was the offender, there is no need to immediately ban access from using social media, cell phones, or other forms of cyber communication. This will not address the situation, nor will it eliminate it from happening further.

Investigate thoroughly. It’s important to know how and why this is happening in order to be able to take the appropriate action. Kids have a tendency to leave out important details or spin things in a more favorable manner when speaking to their parents. Make sure you really get to the bottom of the situation and find out exactly what happened, who was involved, and how it started.

Work with the school. If you feel like you are getting no where, schedule an appointment with an administrator, counselor, or a trusted teacher. Since the start of the cyberbullying wave, schools have been extensively trained on how to handle these situations.

Contact the content provider directly. Social media sites such as Facebook and Twitter are well aware of the dangers and frequency of cyberbullying. Contact them directly to aid you in the process of having the content removed. Cell phone providers will be happy to help you put blocks on several phone numbers and can usually offer printouts of any text messages sent to the account, which may come in handy should you have to take legal action.

Don’t be afraid to contact the police. If physical threats have been made or crimes have been committed, the police are your ally. If you have not been able to locate the origin of the abuse, the police have the ability to order records from sites, such as Facebook, to help narrow down your list of suspects.

Apply firm consequences.  If your child engages in cyberbullying, make sure to lay down the law. 1 in 4 victims report being bullied on more than one occasion, so it is imperative that you make your child understand the severity of the abuse.

Avoid contacting the abuser’s parents directly. Leave this to the school administrators or police, unless you have a close relationship with the parents. Contacting the parents directly can escalate matters quickly and cause more damage than good.

Take screenshots. Often the child deletes the text messages or the content is taken down without being preserved. As hard as it may be, encourage your child to take screenshots before deleting to ensure you have sufficient evidence if the situation requires legal action.

 

Snapchat breach

 

In some instances, cell phones offer parents a lot of peace of mind. When your teenager has a cell phone, you know you can get a hold of them and that they have a resource to turn to if danger arises. In this regard, cell phones offer security to today’s parents that previous generations of parents would have loved.

However, teenagers can also use their phones to get into trouble,embarrass themselves or even put themselves at risk. As a parent, you have probably already talked to your children about the kind of information they should and shouldn’t put online, but sexting through apps has become such a trend in youth, as many believe that these apps are guarding their privacy.

We have all heard about the dangers of the popular teen app Snapchat, which is an app that allows users to send a picture of a short video that allegedly automatically disappears within seconds. With Snapchat, recipients of photos or videos can still screen shot and save images from a Snap. The app is widely believed to be used as an app for sexting, even amongst younger users.

Snapchat experienced a breach last year, causing widespread concern over the legitimacy of the self-destructive feature. A breach has occurred yet again.

According to the Fox31 News story, “Hackers Stole 100,000 Snapchat Photos, Will Post Them Online,”

“Misfits on the image-sharing website 4chan.org claim they hacked into a third-party app and stole 100,000 photos and videos.

This collection, which might be published this weekend, is likely to include child pornography. Snapchat is popular as a tool for sending nude images. And half of its users are teenagers between the ages of 13 and 17.”

The 2014 Snapchat breach is estimated to have affected 4.3 million users this time. There was reportedly a gap in Snapchat’s security, which enabled the usernames and phone numbers for millions of users to become downloaded onto a website called SnapchatDB.info.

To find out if you or your child’s Snapchat accounts were exposed, visit this site. By entering your account username in the link’s provided field, the tool will scan the list of compromised accounts for your details and inform you of your status accordingly.

Showing your teenagers news stories like this may help them understand how easy it is for images they send through apps to be used for purposes they didn’t intend. Whether it is Snapchat or any other app used for sexting, there is no such thing as a safe way to send photos that expose your body online or through apps on phones. Even if you entirely trust the person you are sending photos to, your privacy is never guaranteed.